The endless conundrum. Do guys like sporty girls? Do they like girly girls? Does it really matter? (Probably/not at all/who cares?) However, the media (and by that we mean the tripartite of Elite Daily, Cosmopolitan and Buzzfeed), seem to frequently give somewhat mixed opinions on it – so we wanted to to challenge it.
I’m well aware that the reason I run, hit the gym and play a variety of sports isn’t to look good and keep guys happy. Far from it. And Kate & I have both been pretty vocal about our opinions on this – anyone who has sat in a pub post rugby with the two of us will very much testify that we aren’t doing anything to keep anyone but ourselves happy – but it is an interesting question that I’m pretty sure men themselves don’t even understand. I mean I could make you well aware of what a lot of guys will immediately say about girls playing rugby, however, on the other hand, they will also wax lyrical about how annoying it is to have a girlfriend who doesn’t know or care about their chosen sport and moans when their weekends are consumed by it. HOW CAN YOU WIN? Simples. The answer is do it right back at them.
(Kate and I both met our boyfriends through playing rugby. They obviously don’t have too much of a problem with that)
We constructed a bunch of thoughts and I then asked for a male opinion – and he was all to happy to oblige.
A short post today, written more for my own benefit than anyone else…
I’m flagging. I’m having a bit of a wobble. Nothing major, just a bit of a wall, and as I’m sure all you runners can attest, a wall can be overcome with determination and the willingness to feel the burn. And boy is it burning. No, I’ve not run my first marathon, I’m knackered because of life in general. Masters Degrees are hard work – who knew??
So, in an effort to motivate myself, I’ve turned to our beloved world of Women in Sport for some motivation, inspiration and perspiration. Time to keep my chin up and power though. I hope they might bring a bit of light to anyone else who might be in need of it too 🙂
1. “Whoever said, ‘It’s not whether you win or lose that counts,’ probably lost.” – Martina Navratilova
I’m finishing this post off having just got my 3rd PB in 7 days…but less about that, let’s go back to last weekend! Last weekend was a week away from the long run of marathon training and then turned into a double-header of races (yes, I know, maybe not the brightest idea I’ve had), which couldn’t have been more different in profile, surface, weather, ease…and just about everything.
Race 1 – Southern XC Champs, Parliament Hill. 7.5k of mud and hills.
Race 2 – The Winter Run. 10k of pretty much dead flat London city streets.
So, you now have to contend with TWO race reviews…
*Disclaimer – my own race entry for the Winter Run was complementary – however all other places mentioned were paid for*
Met my mum early at Peter Jones for some browsing (I have A LOT of John Lewis vouchers that need spending) and then wandered around the Kings Road before heading up to Kentish Town for a short walk to Parliament Hill for the Southern Champs. The Senior Women’s race was the second last, meaning all the juniors had had plenty time to churn up the course for us – thanks guys (and girls!)